A Vision for Their Future
How many times have you heard someone say, “Oh! You homeschool? Wow. I could never do that!” Their reasons range from, “I’m too impatient” to “I would ruin their education.” But the fact is, with homeschooling—as with all great accomplishments—there is a principle at work that gives parents the ability to homeschool their children for the long haul: Vision. A vision for their future.
As with anything, if we have a vision, a far reaching goal, a greater purpose or plan, then we will set our nose to the grindstone and overcome the obstacles before us. In the pursuit of a great vision, there will always be rocky paths and difficulties to overcome—whether it’s starting a new business, building a house, or educating our children. However, those who are successful in their new business, in completing the home of their dreams, or in graduating their children from high school, are the ones who kept their eyes and heart on the goal when they faced the inevitable trials that come with any great accomplishment.
If we focus on the temporal issues—if our thoughts are consumed with the means rather than the overriding purpose for our labors—it will be easy to fall.
In the end, homeschooling produces mature, responsible adults who are better able to handle the pressures of college, career, marriage, and life in general.
Homeschooled high schoolers are mature and adult like, similar to John Quincy Adams who graduated from law school at age 17, or George Washington who at the age of 17 was the official surveyor for his county in Virginia, or many of the others who never knew they were “still a kid” when they were in their teens. Homeschooling allows our children to find their purpose early and pursue it with passion and excellence. It allows them to catch a vision for their lives while most kids are worried about being popular, accepted, or cool.
Homeschooling gives us the opportunity to pour truth and the love of Jesus into our children’s lives. Being around us day after day, they will watch and see how God intervenes in our situations and circumstances, teaching them that, indeed, God is real, God is good, and God delivers. Our children are given a Biblical worldview as they learn of science, history, and art from a God centered, providential perspective. With a godly worldview, they will be world changers. Their light will shine brightly as their friends see them pray—and watch God work in their lives. Our children will be different from the world, not for their own sake, but for the sake of the world—in order to shine brightly, drawing others to Christ.
Don’t lose the vision when your road leads to an obstacle that must be removed before you can go on. There are many ways to get the boulder out of the path while keeping your heart focused on the goal.
God’s word tells us that without vision, people cast off restraint; some translations even say, “perish.”
I know that without the vision I had for my children’s future, I could have thrown in the towel many times.
Yet the commitment ran so deep that no matter how many times I was in doubt, I came out of the turmoil with an even stronger conviction that everything will, indeed, turn out for the good. And it did.
For more encouragement read Obstacles in Our Path.
@ 6:31 pm
I have thoroughly enjoyed your blog. I sat up last night and read your entire blog. It was great! I like the insights you give to other homeschoolers. I felt much encouragement. Continue to let God use you to encourage others. I am going to put you on my friend’s list. Blessings, Traci
I have tried to post this message twice already & it wouldn’t let me post with my blog name, so I am going to post anonymous and see if it will let me post. My blog site is: http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/daybydaygrace
@ 10:19 pm
You are so right. My dh and I plan to homeschool all the way through school, Why? B/c that is the vision God has impressed on us. Some days are tough but never do I question if we are doing the right thing. (I might question my methods or my sanctification but not the vision.)
Also I wanted to tell you we are using your on astronomy right now. I love it and so do the kids. It is the first we have tried one of the series. Thanks for all your hard work on this book.
@ 12:23 pm
Thank you! I really needed to hear this right now. I am about to ‘give up’ homeschooling my soon to be 6 year old dd. She has a cousin in ps and really wants to go too. I am struggling with trying to get her to ‘enjoy’ hs’ing. She feels she is ‘missing out’ plus she is a ‘social butterfly.’ We live in a small town & attend a small church – the only kids there are ours and her cousin that goes to ps. I am in a pickle. I know ps is best . . . I also don’t want my daughter to ‘resent’ me either. I will just have to pray about it. . . we may be moving to a larger town soon and then I can go to hs’ing co-op’s and park days etc…
Thanks again for your words of wisdom.